3 Pots of Boiling Water & Life (EXPERT)

Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed. Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen.

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He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.

Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot and ground coffee beans in the third pot. He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing. After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup.

Turning to her, he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?” “Potatoes, eggs and coffee,” she hastily replied.

“Look closer”, he said, “and touch the potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft.

He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.

“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.

He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity-the boiling water. However, each one reacted differently. The potato went in strong, hard and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak. The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the egg became hard. However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.

“Which one are you?” he asked his daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean?”

Moral: In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is how you choose to react to it and what you make out of it. Life is all about leaning, adopting and converting all the struggles that we experience into something positive.

Grieve Like a Child

When a person is child-like, they are teachable, full of wonder, trusting, uncomplicated, innocent, pure, and naïve. Their simple understanding of the rules of life has not been jaded or become cynical.

To witness a pure character, follow a three year old for a day. They eat only when they are hungry and stop when they are satisfied. When they are sad, they cry. They sleep when they are tired and can catch a snooze anywhere. They are fascinated with nature and how things work. There intentions are clear. If they want something they ask. If they don’t get what they want, they figure out how to get it.When a person is child-like, they are teachable, full of wonder, trusting, uncomplicated, innocent, pure, and naïve. Their simple understanding of the rules of life has not been jaded or become cynical.They don’t mind getting dirty; in fact they enjoy mess. They don’t care what others think of them. In fact, they assume everyone loves and appreciates them. And why wouldn’t they?

Which Of The Three Pots Are You In Right Now?

We all face loss and sadness in our lives.  But as the father explained with the three pots of water, we can choose how we handle live’s adversities.  If you are having trouble coping with the death of a loved one, please contact Pet Grief Coach Judy Helm Wright today.  She can assist you in walking through the grief, loss and mourning.  Contact us at www.deathofmypet.com  You will always be glad you did.